What is the Perfect Body?

Caitlyn Davey • July 8, 2025

All my life I always thought I knew what the perfect body was male and female of course, I've thought about each for many years.It is what I saw in all the magazines, Men’s/Women’s health, films, TV shows and my friend Matty’s Dads DVDs that he uses to hide under his bed. What a strange place to hide his favourite shows we thought, the surprise was real.These people were tall (bastards), tanned, visible 6 packs, big arms, legs and shoulders popping so much they looked like small footballs. I was in awe. I wanted that. So like many others, I began with a trip to the gym to get super jacked within a couple of months …… I am still waiting 14 years later. This is bull shit. I walked into the gym, I put no weights on the 20kg bar and began my warm-up set of bench press, this was not a warm-up set I soon realised, it was my 1 rep max. Jesus this isn’t going to be fun I thought.As the years went on my training was always based around how I could be a better athlete but even during this time, aesthetics was always in the back on my mind of course it was. It always is. We want to be able to be proud of what we see in the mirror. But what is wrong about being proud of your body for what it’s capable of without showing defined abdominal muscles, a definition in your quads, bulging biceps or an arse like J LO?I will say it absolutely nothing. Where has this idea of perfect come from? If you are super ripped up and have what you would call an ideal body, does this mean you’re strong? Does this mean your healthy? Does this mean you’re happy? Nope. I have made mistakes in the past for dieting people including myself too low, not enjoying the foods we like, not going to social events, where stress becomes higher, happiness becomes lower, sex drive drops, training ability sucks and what for? To be able to take a picture and show people, is that really what we are living for?Remember the pillars of health I have spoke about in previous emails, not just nutrition and exercise.   So what is the perfect body? In my opinionThe perfect body is the body where we are most comfortable, we are most happy and where we can live without stress. It means we can love who we are, we can go to social events, we can enjoy our life and have a respect with our bodyOf course, the bodies health markers should not be affected. In no way shape or form am I saying, you shouldn’t be looking for improvement. HELL NO. But just understand your idea of a great body. Everyone is vastly different, genetics, hormones and the time of the month play a role. So don’t be chasing something that makes you unhappy in the process. Look at what your body is capable of, not what it is not. You jump out of bed each day, you get to train, you get to give yourself nutritious foods,  you get to give your body what it deserves. This is where the results are. There is nothing wrong with looking to better your body and yourself but make sure it is processed oriented as much a possible and you don’t give your body a deadline in achieving your sustainable happiness in terms of a physique. Because it will be short lived.I make a living on improving peoples body composition, but aside this we work on improving their mindset, their education, their vision, their understanding of what they really want and what will make them happy within themselves. The point of my emails is to hopefully make you think a little bit differently, it is to challenge your belief system and question things you thought you already knew. I will leave you with this. Do not believe having a ‘perfect’ body will fix all your problems.

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July 22, 2025
If you live in Wynnum or Capalaba , chances are you’ve seen a bootcamp in action — high-intensity sessions in parks, with lots of burpees, sprints, and shouting. While bootcamps can be a fun way to get sweaty, there’s a reason more people are choosing structured strength training instead. At Rebuild, we often meet people who’ve jumped from one bootcamp to another, chasing results they never quite achieve, or can’t maintain. Here’s why strength training, not bootcamp-style fitness, is the smarter long-term approach for your health and body. 1. Progress Over Punishment Bootcamps often focus on burning calories and pushing people to their limits every session. It feels intense — but it’s usually random. There’s no plan beyond “go hard”. Strength training is different. It’s measured, progressive, and adaptable . Whether you’re lifting a barbell or doing bodyweight movements, the goal is to build skill, strength, and confidence over time. You're not punished for where you're at — you're coached toward where you want to be. 2. Stronger Muscles = Better Results Cardio-heavy bootcamps might help you lose weight quickly, but they rarely help you build muscle, and muscle is the key to long-term fat loss, strength, and mobility . When you train with resistance (weights, bands, or bodyweight), your body becomes more efficient. You burn more calories at rest, move better, and feel more capable in everyday life. And unlike bootcamps, strength training actually preserves lean mass while you're in a calorie deficit — which matters if your goal is body composition, not just weight loss. 3. Individual Coaching Matters Most bootcamps have one instructor yelling instructions to a big group. There’s rarely time to check your technique, let alone adjust for injuries, experience, or confidence levels. At Rebuild, our group sessions are coach-led and purpose-built . We take time to teach proper form, scale movements to your ability, and track your progress. You're not just surviving a workout — you’re learning how to move better and train smarter. 4. It’s Not Just About Today’s Workout Bootcamps often lack structure. You show up, do something exhausting, and leave. There’s no continuity or long-term planning. Strength training follows a programmed approach , meaning each week builds on the last. You’ll have sessions designed to improve specific movements and outcomes — whether that’s lifting more weight, increasing core strength, or mastering your first pull-up. That structure keeps you consistent, motivated, and injury-free. 5. Sustainability Over Shock Tactics If you’re tired of the “go hard or go home” mentality, strength training is for you. It’s adaptable to all ages, bodies, and goals . You’ll get fitter, stronger, and more confident — without burning out or breaking down. Ready to train with purpose? If you're looking for something better than a bootcamp in Wynnum or Capalaba , join us at Rebuild. We coach real people — not fitness models — to get real results. 📍 Structured training 📍 Expert coaches 📍 Community that has your back You don’t need to be fit to start. You just need to start.
July 22, 2025
A lot of people have completed a marathon but how many people have collapsed at 40km?

Sometimes you do everything right, and shit still doesn’t go to plan.
 Last weekend I ran in the Gold Coast Marathon, my first ever marathon. I trained properly, my body felt relatively good (all things considered when preparing to run 42.2km), I carb-loaded, and my race day nutrition was dialled in.
 I was ready.
 We set off. Jess and the kids met me at different points on the course with signs, the atmosphere was great. I loved seeing the kids with their signs. Pacing felt on point. The first 21km? Easy. I felt great. Maybe I should’ve drunk more water, but I didn’t think too much of it at the time.
 At 25km, I felt slower, but pace wise I was still holding well. I’d kept telling myself throughout the day "The race starts at 30km." And let me tell you, it does.
 By 30km, the sun was out, and I was starting to struggle. My watch started glitching so I had no real idea of my splits. I thought I was slowing down a lot (turns out I wasn’t), but the effort to keep the same pace suddenly felt 10x harder.
 I hadn’t taken on enough water. Usually, I can get away with lower fluids. Not this time. Dehydration crept in. hard.
 At 35km I was in survival mode, one foot in front of the other, flicking between moments of pain and little short lived waves of “let’s go.” But by 39km I was delirious. I could see the finish line, I hit the 40km mark (where I thought enjoyment might return to finish), and I collapsed.
 I was gone. Scary stuff.
 The last few hundred metres were a complete blur. All I remember is the crowd, the medics, and about five paramedics suddenly around me. I was vomiting, shaking, confused, in and out of it. I had this overwhelming, indescribable feeling, and honestly, for a moment, I thought I could die.
 My memory went. I couldn’t recall the day, the year, where I lived, or how to spell. I only knew who Jess and the kids were, and that I didn’t want them to see me with wires in me. 
 My temperature had hit 40°C. Blood pressure crashed. Thankfully, the medics and paramedics were incredible, I had a drip running into me within 10 to 15 minutes.
 As I already knew, I’m stubborn. I wanted to run it all. Not walk. Not stop and breathe and In hindsight, I should have. 
 Seems like my mind was just a bit stronger than my body on the day. I never thought I could push myself there in all honesty. 

Am I gutted? Of course, I was only 2km away but I gave it everything I had on that day. Heat stroke, exhaustion, and dehydration got me. 

I am always reminded here of the quote ‘The man in the arena’ look it up if you need. 
 Will I run 42.2km again? Yes, I feel I need to. 

Would I do things differently, now I’ve run 40km under race conditions? You bet, lessons learnt. Always lessons. Never be scared to not succeed. Be scared to never try in the first place. 
 We go again.
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