It's Time to Put Yourself First!

Caitlyn Davey • July 8, 2025

Without a good method of releasing the built-up stress and tension, we break either physically, emotionally or mentally or sometimes all 3 at the same time which is not fun.In these crazy times, in the hustle and bustle of life, it can often feel like we don’t get a break constantly jumping from one job to another. Life stress has become such a constant that our bodies do not get a chance to recover. We pile on stress all day every day and it’s almost seen as a badge of honor being able to deal with so much.However, without being able to dissipate stress we set ourselves up for the straw that broke the camel’s back type scenario. At some point, there will be too much and without a good method of releasing the built-up stress and tension, we break either physically, emotionally or mentally or sometimes all 3 at the same time which is not fun.Parents are especially guilty of this, always putting others first before taking time for themselves. When we divide our energy out amongst so many things at the end of the day we just don’t have anything left to give to ourselves.But what if we switched that? What if we started putting more time into ourselves? Whilst initially it may seem like we are taking time away from those who need us, the time we spend with them will be of a higher quality because we will be in a better place. Quality of time over quantity time matters.We are at a point now in society where we are experiencing the devolution of the human being. We need to start focusing more on being able to put ourselves first.We need to take time to destress/down-regulate so we can be our best selves. We need to find methods that allow us to relax, and I’m not talking about having 3-4 drinks a drinks night every night after a long day which by the way if you do so you’re considered a ‘functioning alcoholic’.We owe it to ourselves to be better than that. We need to implement other methods in our lives to be able to down-regulate.Some times we just need to STOP and BREATHE. And I mean that literally, just taking 5min out of our day to just breathe can do wonders for our mental clarity and will help us down-regulate (if you say that you don’t have 5 minutes to sit and do nothing that’s total bullshit, how long have you just spent scrolling through your phone?If we can just allow 5 min to ourselves to just focus on our breath we will feel more focused, our mind uncluttered and we will just feel better knowing we have done something just for ourselves and the people closest to us will notice these changes and appreciate them.So the challenge I put forward to you is to sit for 5 minutes without your phone and breathe.What else can you include in your day to help you destress do you think? We would love to know your methods?Thanks for reading Sean Carroll 

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A lot of people have completed a marathon but how many people have collapsed at 40km?

Sometimes you do everything right, and shit still doesn’t go to plan.
 Last weekend I ran in the Gold Coast Marathon, my first ever marathon. I trained properly, my body felt relatively good (all things considered when preparing to run 42.2km), I carb-loaded, and my race day nutrition was dialled in.
 I was ready.
 We set off. Jess and the kids met me at different points on the course with signs, the atmosphere was great. I loved seeing the kids with their signs. Pacing felt on point. The first 21km? Easy. I felt great. Maybe I should’ve drunk more water, but I didn’t think too much of it at the time.
 At 25km, I felt slower, but pace wise I was still holding well. I’d kept telling myself throughout the day "The race starts at 30km." And let me tell you, it does.
 By 30km, the sun was out, and I was starting to struggle. My watch started glitching so I had no real idea of my splits. I thought I was slowing down a lot (turns out I wasn’t), but the effort to keep the same pace suddenly felt 10x harder.
 I hadn’t taken on enough water. Usually, I can get away with lower fluids. Not this time. Dehydration crept in. hard.
 At 35km I was in survival mode, one foot in front of the other, flicking between moments of pain and little short lived waves of “let’s go.” But by 39km I was delirious. I could see the finish line, I hit the 40km mark (where I thought enjoyment might return to finish), and I collapsed.
 I was gone. Scary stuff.
 The last few hundred metres were a complete blur. All I remember is the crowd, the medics, and about five paramedics suddenly around me. I was vomiting, shaking, confused, in and out of it. I had this overwhelming, indescribable feeling, and honestly, for a moment, I thought I could die.
 My memory went. I couldn’t recall the day, the year, where I lived, or how to spell. I only knew who Jess and the kids were, and that I didn’t want them to see me with wires in me. 
 My temperature had hit 40°C. Blood pressure crashed. Thankfully, the medics and paramedics were incredible, I had a drip running into me within 10 to 15 minutes.
 As I already knew, I’m stubborn. I wanted to run it all. Not walk. Not stop and breathe and In hindsight, I should have. 
 Seems like my mind was just a bit stronger than my body on the day. I never thought I could push myself there in all honesty. 

Am I gutted? Of course, I was only 2km away but I gave it everything I had on that day. Heat stroke, exhaustion, and dehydration got me. 

I am always reminded here of the quote ‘The man in the arena’ look it up if you need. 
 Will I run 42.2km again? Yes, I feel I need to. 

Would I do things differently, now I’ve run 40km under race conditions? You bet, lessons learnt. Always lessons. Never be scared to not succeed. Be scared to never try in the first place. 
 We go again.
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